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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH is much more attractive than me, and that’s okay. I love him for so much more than his looks. I would love him just as much as if he wasn’t as attractive. Keeping in shape is really important to him, so he works out and watches what he eats. If he had a belly I’d still be attracted to him.

I wonder if he wishes I was more attractive. He had never said anything and we have an active and adventurous sex life. I adore him and we seem to have fun when we’re together. He doesn’t seem to expect me to be as comparably attractive as him.

OP, why does his looks matter to you?  Are you no longer attracted to him?  Are you as kind and fun as him?  Do you make as much money?  So many ways to assess a person. Looks is only one category. [/quote]

I make more money but am certainly not as kind. I mean look at what I posted!

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You get over it by being less shallow. If you can’t see the other good qualities, then you are just shallow. Maybe some self reflection on why appearance is so important to you. Also, comparison is the thief of joy. Stop comparing him to other men you’ve dated or other men you know now. [/quote]

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