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[quote=Anonymous]I was just ruminating on how I no longer find DH attractive at all since he gained 25lbs. I have tried to play mental games around this but I cannot force myself to be sexually attracted to someone whose body is now objectively unattractive. I love him, but I simply do not want to do it with him. At all. He’s a good guy so this bothers me. He is probably the least handsome and fit man I ever dated, but he was decently slender and sexy when we met. He’s let himself go and I know it’s hard because he works hard, but attractiveness is a priority for me. (Yes, I am still fit.) I don’t know if I just suck it up with the lights out for maintenance sex, but it’s depressing as hell. I cannot initiate no matter how I try to psych myself up. I’m sad about it. Hoping he’ll fix things. [/quote]
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