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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a family friend who does this. She keeps sending me fridge magnets from her travels, despite me telling her that I don't collect them and don't like to clutter up the fridge with them. I think pp is right that this is her love language, but it feels stifling sometimes. I have been clear with her about not wanting them, but she insists on doing it, disregarding my preference. At this point I think it's more about her than about me. [/quote] It feels stifling to get unwanted fridge magnets in the mail? [/quote] It feels stifling to have your preferences blatantly disregarded, over and over. It doesn't matter what the gift is. [/quote] Those of you who are blessed not to have this “nonissue” should thank your stars. The nonregard for your feelings and preferences over and over again are stifling. If you haven’t experienced the feeling of this consider yourself lucky. It’s like when you are in your dating days and a man you don’t like keeps contacting you, over and over again hoping for a chance but you don’t like them back. At a certain point it feel stifling and borderline scary that they keep wasting their time. [/quote]
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