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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Rude. You're walling yourself off and won't respond even if somebody tries to talk to you.

If you must, bring a book to read. That way, if somebody addresses you, you'll hear them and be able to respond.[/quote]

So....maybe just one ear?[/quote]

I think a book is worse because it’s a visible sign that you’re not participating. I wouldn’t do a movie, but I’d listen to podcasts, audiobooks or music with one earbud so I can hear my name if someone addresses me. I wouldn’t fare well with that kind of setting, so much noise that I can’t understand and no relief or distraction. I don’t blame the teen, and I wouldn’t blame you either. [/quote]

Earbuds are every bit as visible as a book. Worse, they send a signal that you've decided to be completely unavailable should somebody try to talk to you.

Wave the book around and make a joke about it. "I'm so glad you guys are reconnecting! I'm here having fun, let me know when you're back to English!" [/quote]

A single airpod isn’t as visible as a book, nor does it indicate you’ve shut yourself off.

I give up, OP. I don’t think think it’s rude. Apparently some people will judge you regardless. If you’re going to be judged anyway, do what makes you most comfortable so you’ll be less bored while you’re sitting in the hot seat. At least you won’t understand when they say you’re being unavailable. [/quote]

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