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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your mom has distance from your cousins and can tolerate their words better. She has a closer relationship with you so your words hold more power for her than theirs. She has a need to put your mom in a certain light as it’s an important part of her identity and role. In general, there is an unspoken rule that you are not to speak ill of someone’s parents. Even if it’s true. It’s natural they will be defensive of their own parent. Their identity is inextricably linked with their parents and it probably their strongest tie in their earthly existence. You broke that rule. Talk to your cousins if you need an empathetic ear about how your grandmother mistreated you. Your mom is not the right audience.[/quote] To put *her* mom in a certain light[/quote]
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