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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again: 14:44 that's one kind of lie that drives me crazy. Because he'll say something, and I'll go on the assumption that he's telling the truth, like continuing to look for the thing he's actually thrown out, or wondering if I bought a product already opened. I'll go nuts for a minute trying to remember if I check if the jar was open before I left the store.

For a while I was wondering why all our plants weren't dying. I kept asking him if he watered them. He said no. Anytime I would check the plants, the soil would be wet. Hmm. (this type of thing really messes with my mind). One day I caught him watering the plants. Me:  I thought you said you never water the plants? Him: Well, I'm just watering this one because it was dry, and thought I'd water the others while I was at it.

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OP, I can smell a compulsive liar a mile away.

But what you are describing sounds a bit to me like minutia that your DH just figures he can white lie about rather than have to get into it with you about why he disagrees with you, or maybe a better way to put some of these instances is when you demand he do something, you stay on his ass like stink on sh*t about it, and he just doesn't want to do it or deal with your nagging, so he white lies about it (yes, honey, I did it!  No honey, I didn't do it! And in his head he is thinking "When will she go away or STFU).

I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just being sincere - perhaps this advice will save your marriage/engagement.  I would encourage him to be open about when he doesn't feel like doing something or disagrees about what needs to be done.[/quote]

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