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[quote=Anonymous]You are thinking of imaginable returns associated with staying, but the pain of knowing you are sleeping with someone who has slept with someone else is hard to imagine. Wondering if they took them to that same restaurant, if they are really still in touch or if they are comparing you to the other person. The pain and betrayal are like a wound that does not heal. You can stuff your feelings down and think "I got the japanese garden" or "fancy car, she did not," but your self esteem takes a real hit. In both of your eyes I think, because the husband knows he has you. When women discuss this in terms of "divesting," it really turns my stomach because they are leaving the realm of love and intimacy and entering a business mindset which is transactional. Hey, some people live that way, but I operate on another plane.[/quote]
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