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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. And I’d be pissed about the attempt to gaslight you with that defensive response. You did nothing wrong. [/quote] I agree he should tell her when he leaves the house, and his response was petulant and self-important. But it wasn’t gaslighting. Gaslighting would be lying about where he was and/or making her think she is misremembering. If he had said “What are you talking about? I was in the back yard the whole time. How did you miss me?” or “Don’t you remember? I told you I was going to get the car inspected.” Those are examples of gas lighting. Her DH is just being a jerk and acting like she shouldn’t be keeping tabs on him.[/quote] It’s also gaslighting when he’s challenging her reaction as if she has no grounds to be upset and question his leaving without communication. He’s putting it back on her as if she is in the wrong for even asking. [/quote]
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