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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I thought people w kids stay because he is a lousy dad. Plus lousy husband or whatever.

What’s stopping you from leaving? You could do 50/50 or even give him 80% custody if you need to focus on other things. It can always be changed.[/quote]

DP. Interest post, pp!

I sometimes think of how easy it will be for me to divorce because my DH is a great dad. I would be very comfortable giving him 50/50 custody.

Him being a great dad is one of the main reasons why I love him. Ironically, it will also make it so much easier to divorce him if I ever decided to.[/quote]

Yup, and my disaster prone, can’t connect with anyone, can’t remember to brush his own teeth spouse would make a terrible solo parent or coparent. 
My life would remain hell co-parenting with him; he has mental disorders. 
So divorce w kids is not an easy decision for me. I only have bad options: stay in this hell to protect the kids and compensate for their lack of a father, or cut bait and let dysfunction rule 20-50% if the time.
I’m told the dysfunctional types- if not narcissists or wealthy- give up the custody time if posed in a way to save face . Ooh, you must be so busy and important. Oh, you need some time, take a couple years to regroup. [/quote]

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