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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve been in a chaotic sleepover situation like this. I was older, maybe 11-12, but there were definitely two girls competing to be the most “fun” or “wild”. The friends I remember doing it were never people I liked, but popular girls who were good at getting everyone to go along with their plans for fear of being left out. They also had socially connected parents, so other parents included the girls because the parents were in charge of a lot of important stuff in the community. The “wild” girls had sisters who were finishing high school or in college when we were in late elementary, so I’m sure their antics seemed minor to their parents and they were rarely disciplined. In your case, I bet a lot of these girls haven’t been in a large group situation outside of school? If they didn’t practice at 6,7 and 8 because of Covid restrictions, they didn’t experience the gradual loosening of the reins that happens naturally as parents stop attending parties after preschool/K. I’ve also seen this dynamic bubble up at swim team parties in the summer, but it usually gets shut down before things go crazy. More than 5-6 girls can be a lot as PPs have said.[/quote]
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