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[quote=Anonymous]Knowing details about certain purchases diminishes my husbands enjoyment. Our vacations, for example. He had a long student frugal period getting his degrees and so it’s hard for him to shake the fact that you **could** save $700 by taking a longer layover or a connecting flight. But if he doesn’t see the price he can enjoy the direct business class flight and the comfort and convenience without remembering he COULD have saved money. Same with our daughter— he would buy all of her clothes at Old Navy and never coordinate her shoes or headband but he loves when people tell him how beautiful our toddler is and how perfect she looks. Lifestyle purchases are in my lane and so I get the dates and location better for vacation and the amount of money stays between me and my bank. He trusts me that I’m a responsible manager of money and I do the same on our mortgage rates and other investments that he manages. [/quote]
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