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[quote=Anonymous]I would if it’s anything over $1000 or something really not necessary. I think the amount though depends on your financial situation and would agree upon an amount together that it should be discussed before spending. If he isn’t buying Rolexes every day and you can genuinely afford it I wouldn’t harp on that specific thing. In general though it’s good to have agreed upon limits for discretionary spending no matter who is directly making the money since it’s both of yours. If I think creating a daily 2-5 minutes conversation around finances helps because you’re not just nagging over every purchase. Oh hey went to dollar tree today, Can you believe it’s not a dollar anymore, I spent $40 instead of my usual $30. Then DS told me he will be needing new cleats so I’ll look into getting those next week, etc. Just throwing it into daily conversation makes it easier to discuss these awkward / uncertain situations that might arise like random Rolexes.[/quote]
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