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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am dating a man who used to have fifty fifty custody and now has full custody due to the mom being a screw up (she moved away and is not financially or physically caring for the kids).

I would not start out dating someone who has full custody. If he had had full custody when we met, I would t have gone out with him. Men with full custody just don’t have enough time to be a good boyfriend. If he and I ever break up I will not date anyone else with full custody.

Move on[/quote]

I’m in a similar situation.  They were 50/50 when we met and he had free time half the time.  She’s a total nutbag and stopped seeing the kids at all for a few years.  Now she’s sort of back but one wants absolutely nothing to do with her so is with my SO all the time.  It makes it very, very difficult to maintain an adult relationship when there’s very little adult time.  I’m not sure I would have pursued this relationship had it been this way when we’d met.  But I’m all in now.

OP I think you need to let this one go.  He’s out up too many barriers for a healthy adult relationship.  Maybe once his kids get older, or if he's willing to include you and them together something may be more viable down the road.  But I’m not sure how your scenario would even work.[/quote]

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