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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]OP are you paying her bills? Buying food or diapers for her first?[/b] Are you judging that she is having a second one she can't afford or that she is single? Or "unwed" as you put it.

While I don't think having 2 on her own at 21 is the best situation, something about you just rubs me the wrong way.[/quote]

Well if she's on welfare.........then the answer is yes. [/quote]

She is on welfare, food stamps, the works.  She is currently unemployed, we are not talking about a hard working career woman who decided to start a family on her own.  We are talking about a young lady that has thrown caution to the wind, and expects everyone to bail her out when she needs help.   I am thinking about the baby, which is why I am sending a gift, I think I made that pretty clear.  My problem is the family throwing her a baby shower and expecting people to again supply her with baby items.   I feel for her parents because they are supporting her and the children.  Another reason I will help.  I know she is a difficult person, she is demanding about how and when things are done.  I know there was some suspicion that she was using marijuana during her last pregnancy, and she got a visit from CPS in the hospital after the birh.   But, no I am not buying her diapers or food, I guess I am judging her, because I know the history  and I am worried.  [/quote]

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