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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s “in-group” vs “out-group”.  They want to belong to the “in-group” which today is made up of people who self-identify as queer.  So they can’t be boring, straight, married people. [/quote]

I think usually it’s one of the options others have identified (one or both are bi, one or both are non-binary, one or both are trans) but I do think this happens sometimes too. But rarely. You have to be in a community where being straight/cis is actually considered negative or “boring”. That’s incredibly rare. But I was once in a workplace/friend group where this was the attitude, and there were some straight folks in the group who started identifying as queer even though they didn’t change their orientation or gender. I don’t think it was totally disingenuous though. I honestly think being around people who think being straight/cis is less interesting can make people question the binary nature of their gender and sexuality. It makes them think “well yeah maybe if I’d explored it more before marriage I’d be less straight or less cis.”

But that’s very different than actually being gay or non-binary or trans. By that measure, most people are LGBTQ+, based on research like the Kinsey scale.[/quote]

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