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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH will come here soon and post "how do I handle the mental load of not being allowed to ask my wife simple questions without her flying into a rage and screaming that she is tired"?   :lol: [/quote]

We’re kind of a divide and conquer family also and we divide by who is the most controlling or capable of the category. It really didn’t work for us to both deal with medical and school issues because the needs were complicated and my spouse just was never as good as I was at it.  But therr are a whole host of things I never ever get involved with like cars and going to the bank. I don’t even get my own gas unless I’m on a trip by myself.

We do sometimes fall into the trap of “where’s this?”, “what time is that event?”, “is there a game on Labor Day weekend?”, “where are the kid’s shirts”. But if it is really so hard to answer this civilly then it seems like there might be other issues because really, how hard is it to just say “I don’t know” if you don’t or to just answer if you do. [/quote]

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