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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Start practicing non combative responses.

Where are dd's shirts - in the top drawer (do not get up and show)
What did the email say - 
I did not get around to reading it yet.

Tips - put his name 1st on the school / daycare contact forms.  School directory etc.   
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Catch 22 to making him the contact person- not sure I’m confident for him to read the emails/handle the calls etc[/quote]

Right, and he’ll fail and he’ll have to fix the mess. I’d did everything for the first few years, got ragey and exhausted, and then we split things up. DH does all things medical and dental. I do everything that involves submitting forms or signing up for stuff.

DH is also one who asks things like “Have we found the lost baseball jersey yet?” which really means “have you found the jersey yet.” A few years ago I started doing a bland “I dunno, do you?” for all of it. It’s gotten much better, but even when he still does it I don’t feel ragey about it. I’m not your servant. Do it yourself.[/quote]

I’ve never allowed him to fail. Someone is always Saving his @ss and he has no repercussions[/quote]

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