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[quote=Anonymous]Dear OP:  Ignore the previous posters who are harsh and judgemental.  Since you were so non-specific, I am wondering if there is something more to the picture. I doubt you would leave your husband just because you are worried about not being idealized soul-mates. Is there something more you are not telling us?  For example, many victims of verbal/psychological abuse are in denial of this -- is he name-calling you, withholding affection/attention, or is there any abusive dynamic here that would lead you to doubt your relationship with him?  Many abusers wait to reveal their abusive nature until after they have kids when their wives are "trapped" with them.... OP, please provide more color/context... IF there is an abusive dynamic -- or some other fact pattern that you are omitting from your post -- this would make it very excusable in my opinion to consider leaving.

Contrary to what the others have stated, it is NOT healthier or selfish to stick it out in an unhappy marriage just for the sake of the kids, especially if there is an aggravating factor such as abuse or addiction to add to the scenario.

it sounds liek you are having some self-doubts right now ..... Talk it out with a therapist and get to the heart of the issue...

If you are thinking of divorce, I'd say give it a year to see if your opinion chnages, don't do anything rash that you would regret..... But it is totally fine IMO to leave if you don't feel you are in a healthy relationship....[/quote]

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