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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m the only daughter who has taken complete control of my moms care since her loss of independence last year.  She now lives in a beautiful AL with tons of friends.. I live an hr away and visit weekly. Meanwhile my  brother and I have been estranged thru all this  because he feels her cost of care is ridiculous which is whittling down our inheritance.  He badgers her incessantly about the money she’s “wasting” on her care. I hired  a financial advisor and showed  her the numbers which shows  she has enough till she’s 125 yrs old. 
We’ve had a great relationship and in front of people she gloats about what a wonderful daughter I am.  Well I know now she’s playing both sides and continues to believe my brother who accused  me of stealing from her bank acct. She demanded I show her her bank statements in which I did. Of course it showed zero funds missing.  Since then she has been very short with me and doesn’t call.  The best part is she still expects me to visit her weekly. I have not been to see her in a few weeks and she’s furious.  I’m so hurt she doesn’t trust me after all I’ve done and I’m not up to being around her right now.  Fyi I don’t need her money because I have 10 times more than she does.  I’m literally sick over what has transpired with our once very loving relationship. [/quote]

First, I am so sorry.  do you think your mother may have some signs of dementia?  I would be more angry with the brother to be honest.[/quote]

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