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[quote=Anonymous]Yes but usually it turns out to just be that I am irritable. If a friend has a personality trait I just don't like, I'd try to minimize my interactions so that I didn't encounter that side of her or at least not as much. And if there is a dynamic between us that I didn't like (say she has a habit of always giving me advice even when I don't ask for it) then I will try to address it ("not looking for advice today -- I'll let you know if I need it") and if it still doesn't change, I'll fade out.

This was something I didn't get when I was younger. I don't have to be friends with anyone. If I don't really like someone or I don't enjoy my time with them, I just don't spend time with them. Easy.

But despite this, I still get annoyed with my friends sometimes. But I'll just take a break for a bit and then when I come back I realize that the issue was just me. Like I have a friend who occasionally gets on my nerves because he'd very argumentative. But then I take a break and come back and realize I actually LIKE that he enjoys arguing (he's not a jerk about it, he enjoys friendly discussion) and is passionate about things. I just have to be in the right headspace for it.[/quote]

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