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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Congrats to them! OP, if you have an amount you want to contribute as a gift, please let the couple know. That’s all you have to do!

My husband and I planned to pay for our entire wedding ourselves. We researched venues and vendors and set a budget we could afford. We ended up being gifted some very nice contributions from family members- mom paid for dress, father paid for venue, in-laws picked and paid for a florist. These were all offers and we were so thankful.[/quote]

+1 when we got engaged, my parents just said: we can give you $10k toward the wedding, use it however you want. my spouse's parents did the same - same amount, even. it made it so much easier for us to plan, knowing what to expect as far as that went.

if you don't want to give a dollar amount, tell them what specifics you want to pay for - the venue, the drinks, whatever. just let them proceed with certainty.

and congrats![/quote]

If you have money set aside to contribute, or want to pay for a specific part of the wedding, just let them know as soon as possible. [/quote]

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