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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your 50s are probably a hard spot for this.  Many women your age are still in the middle of raising kids and are squeezed for time and energy.  In a few years, many more people your age will be empty nesters and have a bit more time for hobbies, getting together, etc.  [/quote]

This is me but I'm looking for friends.  The problem is that most people have already found their tribe and I feel like the assumption is that if you haven't by this point then there is a problem with you.  In my case, I am a bit awkward and don't always have the best social skills.[/quote]

These are just thoughts you’re telling yourself. Most people haven’t found their group — there are tons of people looking for friends. I also don’t think people think there’s a problem with you. I’m awkward and have lots of friends, and frankly, I don’t think the majority of people have good social skills. I give them and me lots of grace.

I only point this out to say do not let your thinking get in your way. Be vulnerable and put yourself out there. I’ve only recently gotten active on LinkedIn, but it is great for meeting people. People are very open to getting to know you over DMs/comments/virtual coffees. I’ve had 5 Zoom coffees over the last few weeks, and have met some great women. But, that is my goal. Don’t take rejection personally, and don’t let it stop you. [/quote]

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