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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is quite common. I don’t think it’s a taboo topic, but I agree with others who’ve said it’s something discussed mostly among close friends. Movies, books, and TV make it look like most women have these incredibly close-knit groups of friends, so no one wants to admit otherwise.

So while I don’t think it’s taboo, I do think it’s uncomfortable for acquaintances to hear, and they may be worried they don’t have the emotional energy to meet your needs.

Is it just that you want people to meet for coffee or go to the day spa with? Or are you looking for a tell-everything-to best friend?[/quote]

Hi, it's OP here. To answer your questions, I would love to have a couple of female friends to meet for coffee, go to the day spa with, go to a museum or art gallery, maybe go hiking or cycling ... (doesn't have to be one and the same person).
And then maybe a 'friend' can evolve into a 'best' friend.

I admit that I miss having a best friend. I always had a best friend throughout my childhood and teenage years. At college I had a bunch of friends. Once I started working I had friendly co-workers, but no close friends or best friend.

I am friendly with 5 or 6 ladies in my local community and, although we get together for dinner with our husbands 2 or 3 times a year, we don't click enough to become close friends or do fun things together.[/quote]

Where do you live? Can you join a meetup group? There are tons of them in DC.[/quote]

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