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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Narcissism. Classic.[/quote] A narcissist wouldn’t have enough self-awareness to notice this about herself or admit that she’s bothered by it. OP is not a narcissist. I have some family members who love being victims. My take is they didn’t get enough attention as children and crave attention now. I’m the opposite- I hate to be pitied in any way. I had a parent die when I was young and it awful hearing everyone whisper about how sorry they felt for me. Their pity confirmed how sad my situation was. I combatted this by striving to be envied. I might have a sad home life, but by golly, I was one of the smartest, most beautiful and well-dressed girls at school. I had the best jewelry and handbag collection. I might have a big hole in my life but the other girls all envied me, at least on the surface. [/quote]
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