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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My grandfather is not expected to live more than another week or two. I'm going to visit him tomorrow. I guess this is a stupid question, but what do I say? Should I just act like everything is normal and chit-chat? We see each other regularly. The last few times I saw him he was very weak and did not speak much. When he did, it was very hard to understand him, so I just nodded and smiled a lot, which I'm sure is frustrating for him. I don't want to do that if this is The last time I'll see him. I also don't want him to think I'm uncomfortable or anything.

Also, how do I explain his death to my almost 3-year old, who knows him and will ask about his absence? We are religious (Catholic), but I don't think she has any concept of heaven. [/quote]

Tell him you love him and thank him for all that he has done for you and tell him how you will miss him.  He knows that he is dying, so don't be afraid to talk to him about death.  Hold his hand.  Your three old could go in with you and give him a kiss.  She is too young to understand but don't tell her that he just went to sleep.  Just show love.[/quote]

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