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[quote=Anonymous]That we are wired for sex to be linked with a host of feelings and connections to our partners, and that being physically intimate with someone you are not deeply connected to emotionally will not feel good or right.  It will feel “off” and empty. (This is consistent with the values we've emphasized over the years.)

That I hope he meets someone special and saves sex for a relationship characterized by respect, trust, and love - but that if he makes that decision and then changes his mind, then that is ok.  It is always ok to say no, at any point.  It is also okay to say yes, have sex, and then decide that you don't want to be with that partner again.

That consent must be nothing less than an enthusiastic YES, spoken by a sober person.

That a person under the influence of alcohol or drugs cannot give consent.

That condoms are essential and combined with another form of BC, make for protection against disease and pregnancy.  To use them always, 100% of the time.

That once a woman becomes pregnant, the rest of the decision making process is in her hands and not DC's, but could have an enormous, deep impact on the rest of his life.

If he can't or doesn't want to come to me, then go to the clinic on campus and talk to someone there. 
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