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[quote=Anonymous]Just read your update, OP, and agree that you have every reason to be concerned. Your ILs sound pushy and have poor boundaries. They’re trying to undermine your parenting. With your son’s struggles, I appreciate how hard it can be to teach to delay gratification, and your ILs are trying to sabotage your efforts. Someone else mentioned your ILs using money to manipulate and control. I totally agree. Some serious boundaries need to be put in place. Maybe even distancing the relationship, but your DH has to be on board. I’m sorry you are in this situation. As far as the trust goes, could hearing from an experienced trust attorney and child psychologist/psychiatrist be helpful for your ILs to delay the trust until 25-30, considering your son’s diagnosis?[/quote]
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