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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I did and it only worked because early on I made it clear I wouldn’t tolerate hemming and hawing.

We dated for about 4 months and he was on the fence about committing. So I broke up with him.

A year later he reached out. He had done a bunch of therapy. Gave him another shot, and while he officially committed, he struggled with the real commitment stuff. Like when I asked if my DD and I could use his pool, he said it “stressed him out”. Broke up with him again after that.

He did more therapy and was ready to commit after that. I made him work for it while also dating other men. He showed me that he could fully commit, so I gave him another chance. Got married and had a kid, still together and happy.

I definitely wouldn’t stay and try to persuade someone to commit. I make it very clear, they need to either sh!t or get off the pot, im not wasting my time. [/quote]

Was he aware you were dating other men?[/quote]

Yup. Let him know I wasn’t going to put all my eggs in one basket, so to speak, because I didn’t know if he was going to get wishy washy again. [/quote]

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