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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What sort of problems you faced due to your spouse’s broken or damaged family? [/quote] His past history of abuse (not sexual) manifested in weakness and fear when dealing with past abuser (understandable). That left me to protect the family. That resulted in a gang-up (with him siding with them) and me being reported to social services. It backfired on them because they were not dealing with reality. He did change after that as it woke him up. I stayed to protect our kids (btw, past issues with family usually manifests when the persons starts their own family). The changes have been positive but the PTSD from my own experiences dealing with them has been pretty nasty. [/quote]
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