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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did he ever use the condoms with you?  What was his explanation?[/quote] He never used them with me. He said he got them for his  guy friends who live abroad! hah. Asked him why he didn't say "hey i'm getting condoms for so and so" ... if it were me I would be super transparent so my spouse wouldn't think anything nefarious going on. Also just thought about this but if he got them for a friend why would he archive the order so it doesn't come up unless you search? [/quote]

New poster. OP, re: the reply above -- So were you already aware he had these "guy friends who live abroad" before you discovered the condom buys? Had he ever mentioned these friends prior to using them as an excuse for purchasing condoms just before trips? Or was this the first time he magically mentioned their convenient existence?

I'd wager these friends don't exist and never existed. If you think they actually do exist, I still think the condoms were at least in part for himself. If these other men exist, they likely pick up women together, or go to brothels together etc.

OP, your FIRST stop is to the doctor's office to get a complete panel of all STD tests. Immediately. Some can take years to show symptoms but will turn up on tests, so you need testing now. But that's for your health and peace of mind; if you're clear and OK that's good for you-- but it does NOT mean he did not cheat.

What other reasons do you have to believe he's cheated? Because there must be other things that have made you suspicious if you think about it.[/quote]

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