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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some very helpful perspectives in this thread, but it really is different for everyone. The tips from the professor are really useful, in our experience. Seeing a lot of mentions of sunshine and warm weather, but that’s not necessarily a deal breaker. Our oldest (with anxiety and depression) is at a northern univ and doesn’t feel that the long and cold winters are much of a factor.

The distance from home IS an issue, but mostly for us as parents. (Flights are fast and reasonable priced but WE would feel better if we could drive there easily.)

We as parents also think that our child would have had a smoother path at a smaller university: less competition for everything, less bureaucracy, easier access to on-campus care. Even a smaller school or program within the chosen university can help. When you are slogging it out among thousands of undergrad econ majors in the biggest college at the univ, for instance, it can be hard not to feel a little lost.

There is, however, much to be said for supporting an 18-year-old’s decision on where to go, even if it makes things harder on you. Your child doesn’t/shouldn’t give up autonomy or independence as a new adult just because of mental health issues. Parents  need to walk a careful line with advice and support so that your child can grow and your relationship stays strong.[/quote]

Thanks so much for posting this.  I posted above at 03:49, and appreciate your perspective as parents who are helping your adult child navigate.  I think these are good considerations to talk about as a family.  This is a great, thoughtful thread, thank you. [/quote]

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