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[quote=Anonymous]I find this question so strange. I have hobbies that my husband is not involved in. Even if he pursued these hobbies, I would still participate in them with other people. He and I each have close friends that are not couples we socialize with.

We share a home and a life. We share our children and the fact that we will still be together long after the kids leave home. We share our past, our memories of time together and our dreams for our future together. I don’t need a special TV show or a special ice cream flavor to tell me he loves me.

What about all the little things? Like my husband knows how much milk to put in my coffee and I know when I come to the table in the morning that my coffee will be there. I buy his favorite foods at the grocery store. He notices my car needs gas and fills it up. I notice his phone is low on batteries and plug it into the charger. It’s the little thoughtful things to me that say “I see you. I see what is important to you.” It’s demonstrating love through small gestures and just doing things without being asked or nagged. So what if he is also thoughtful for his parents and our kids - that doesn’t make me less special. [/quote]

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