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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My daughter is autistic and does best socially when there's a defined group she can join. Based on that, I'm thinking that Greek life might be really appealing. But she's not at all a partier and does not like loud parties. Are there schools where the Greek scene isn't the frats I knew in college? She's interested in engineering schools.[/quote] Hi. At my college, I believe there was a sister in my sorority on the spectrum. These were the days when people were not so open. She was a legacy and got in but I think it was rough for her. It was rough because (although no one directly mean) no one understood why is seemed she didn’t get jokes and was very literal if that makes sense. More serious. I think today it would be easier because when you know someone is on the spectrum you appreciate that their directness is a part of them and what makes them special. I would also not push for a legacy spot and I wouldn’t anyway for a neurotypical child because it is better to find the house where it makes sense. Too many people worry about being in a certain house. Greek life is fun though and there are a lot of great things to do with your sisters. Maybe do some advance work and figure out what are the most appropriate sororities that may have more engineering major members or are involved in things that your daughter likes.[/quote]
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