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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] they are so comfortable being miserable, I think they are unable to feel any way else; it is their comfort zone. The barbs and sarcasm is meant to make us feel miserable too. I would say my mother is a ‘heart eater’, taught to her by her mother.[/quote] I agree, miserable is their comfort zone. Even if my mother starts to seem happy for an hour, she will intentionally pull something from her mind to upset herself. (Similar to how we will slip back into bad posture even though we know it'll hurt our back later. Or like alcoholics will intentionally drink). If others are happy around her, she thinks we are ignoring or dismissing her feelings.[/quote]
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