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[quote=Anonymous]They are in old age what they have always been. Just with more intensity." Yes, this. OP, it sounds like you're in real denial about the nature of your relationship with your mother, and likely about your entire family system. I know it's hard to acknowledge that all was not well with your family, but few people turn into this overnight, and it sounds this is a drama triangle that you're trained to participate in over and over. You don't NEED to do anything other than be responsible for your behavior. It's okay to not visit. It's okay to insist that she's medicated before you visit. Just because she's related doesn't mean you need to put up with her abuse.[/quote]
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