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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm confused.  Are y'all saying that "staying for the kids" after infidelity is BS?  Or "staying for the kids" at all is BS?[/quote]

My husband didn’t clearly communicate what he would have liked me to change to improve our relationship until we were already separating. Suddenly I had a new perspective, but it was too late. I had clearly communicated my needs for years, but husband was unwilling to make any changes. In terms of sex, as our relationship was circling the drain, he said he was tired of trying to coerce me into having sex. I asked him why his approach was to try coercion instead of stoking desire, as I had told him on many occasions what would put me in the mood, but he never tried any of it. His response was “I don’t know.”

I don’t know what other posters are saying, but I’m saying that putting your energy and effort into finding a new partner instead of improving your relationship with your spouse is not in your kids’ best interests. [/quote]

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