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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Doesn't sound like a spouse who so easily falls into affairs cares very much about the kids, even if they are willing to stay in the marriage.[/quote]

This is dumb.  He's staying in the marriage BECAUSE of his kids.  You can love your kids and no longer be in love with your wife/husband.  [/quote]

People like this enjoy their kids for their own benefit. The pleasure and status it gives them. I would say care is the correct term.[/quote]

I agree. The wife I know loved to be the fabulous mom blogger, but would ditch her kids in a second and have the husband do all the activities/sports with the kids or watch them on her phony out of town trip to visit 'her friend'.  She also wasn't going on college scouting trips so she could get rid of husband and kids.

That's not someone with her kids' best interest at heart.  And, there is ZERO consideration of how a teenager will feel when they find out their mom has been banging other people.  That is so much worse than a straight, clean, carefully planned divorce before cheating and the traumatic nuclear bomb.  That creates even bigger trust issues and really messes with their own adult relationships and attachment issues long after they have fled the nest.

So, no, I don't think people willing to subject their families to potentially crazy 'other people' is a nurturing or protective love.  Not one bit.[/quote]

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