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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The couples I know are Dad and Papa, Dad and Pop, and Mom and Mommy. By the way, the kids are not always adopted. Gay men father children too. [/quote] OP here - I know they're not always adopted, but in this case the child clearly is. I only added that detail because I thought if one was the biological dad you might actually have "dad" and "bob" or something. [/quote] Because non-biological parents don't get called mom or dad? Unless you're talking about a step-parent situation, why assume that biologically-unrelated dads get a lesser name than straight adoptive parents? I mean, I'm all for using whatever name you like, but this is like expecting that if a couple uses dad's sperm but an egg donor, the kid should call them Dad and Jane.[/quote] I agree, I actually was kind of offended by OP's suggestion that the non bio parent would somehow be less of a parent to be called by his first name?[/quote] Sorry, no offense meant, I was thinking of a scenario where parent # 2 came into relationship after child was born. I have stepparents that came along when I was pretty young, so was thinking of that.[/quote]
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