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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If a personal trainer worked before why not have him do it again? My personal trainer is Tim Sun and he is awesome. I don't think he's taking new clients but he has other trainers that he works with.[/quote]

Op here. The trainer mainly worked in the past when he was in his 20 s. He  was doing some sort of program at the end of 3030 when he had gained and he had good results with that initially but all of 2021  his weight was up and down. I do  try and keep healthy food in the house and make healthy meals, but if he wants fast food  or snack cakes he's going to buy them no matter what I do. He's a grown man I can't forbid him to eat certain things.

As for the love / attraction conversation. I absolutely love him. He's my guy and I still find him attractive when he's gained but that's more of an emotional attraction. Of course I find him hotter when he's more fit.

I do worry about his health and the future. And sometimes it upsets me that he doesn't seem to care about that, which I realize likely isn't true and not fair. Perhaps pp is right and therapy for me would help.

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PP you're citing. I love that you love him, for the record. We're (ok, I'm) considering couples counseling as well. I suspect it might help us sus this dynamic out better between us. [/quote]

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