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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Today's issue: He says I am a horrible communicator. That I complain about things he does/doesnt do, but then don't follow up or give specifics on how to further address the issue. His words: if you want to adjust something with finances, say something. If you want to adjust something re division of labor, suggest it..."
I suggested we sit down this weekend at a specific time, that I will take the weekend to come up with specific details, answers, proposals etc to the issues we have identified. I asked if tomorrow at 8pm works for him for our talk:

his reply:  Maybe. I don’t have anything to talk about until you put more effort into responding.

uhhhhhh okie dokie. The person complaining about my inability to communicate well (to his standards/liking)  and asking me to follow through....is responding by being passive aggressive and not following through. Cool.[/quote]

OK, so there you go. Put together your plan, tell him you have it ready and set a time to discuss. OP, we are only get your side of the story. Guarantee it, dear DCUM readers, there is more to this than we have here from OP.[/quote]

I would do it with the third party therapist and him.

He is dumping on her. Who knows how much or how often.  Very petty tactic in his part to stonewall.[/quote]

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