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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not that hard to rule out a traditional male view. Harder to vet supposed male feminists. All of them trying to get into your pants with varying tactics.

One must be extremely observant.[/quote]

Very true.

To the 21:00 poster, this is anonymous so not sure what I'd get from bragging, humbly or otherwise. If we want more kindness and equality in the world, we have to start keeping people accountable. Wishful thinking is what gets many people into bad marriages.

I love the Arab watermelon proverb, btw. Hadn't heard it before.

-OP[/quote]

The way you phrased your op was definitely self-congratulatory and without any self-awareness whatsoever.  Do you really think that most women are so completely focused on superficiality while you were sooo smart and loved DH for his kind heart?  Give me a break.  You got lucky, plenty of women who focused on “important things” ended up picking a dud anyway.  Life can be arbitrary and cruel sometimes, the sooner you learn this, the better.[/quote]

I agree. This was written by someone who got lucky but views it as “choices”.  Life is long and people change and not always for the best and sometimes someone who was fantastic when you were young and dating just isn’t when you are older and life is a lot harder. Could you have always known that? Maybe not. But blaming people for not having foresight ten-15 years the line isn’t particularly helpful.  [/quote]

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