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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Road rage, too close with parents, asking to be exclusive right away, giving ultimatums on a first date (“I will never spend Christmas with a woman’s family”; “I don’t do breaks…if there is any break, it is a break up”; saying he had a 100k salary requirement for a wife and he would not let his wife be a SAHM even temporarily. And leaving the state for another job while dating without proposing first. His way or the highway on everything. Awful marriage. [/quote]You knew all this and still married him? What we’re the endearing qualities?[/quote]

Family and social pressure. There was long distance involved. Hard to see everything at once that way but in retrospect all of it was there. It was just a big mistake. I wanted to break up. He wanted to get married. He and everyone talked me into it. There were no endearing qualities. We were not in love. We were the right "age" and on paper, it looked "right." It was never right. Should have listened to my gut. Mistake. That's all.[/quote]

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