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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry OP but I have to mention something that I think is worth noting. As someone who remained single till my mid 30s please don't assume since he is unmarried and childless that he never got over you or that he doesn't have other close people currently in his life.  He doesn't need to make similar life commitments as yourself in order to be over the relationship. [/quote]

Agree with this. Honestly, I would feel uncomfortable if my spouse reached out to an ex under these circumstances.  Since you are not the significant other any longer, I would not do anything.  If he passes, maybe you could send flowers.[/quote]

Damn, this is cold.  The man is dying -- this isn't a time for petty jealousy.  It's not like he's a threat!  Part of being a grownup, in my opinion, is accepting that your partner has emotional connections to other people that aren't you, and that this isn't a threat.  Maybe my perspective on this is a little different because I settled down relatively late after having had many serious relationships.  The idea that my partner wouldn't allow me to be in contact with an ex who was DYING would completely apall me.  And I would think less of him if he didn't give comfort where it could be given, if it were his ex. [/quote]

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