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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I are still on the fence about having one more kid. We are 38 and have 3 right now (7, 5 and almost 2) and the idea of a vasectomy seems too permanent. BUT I am old. And we have 3 kids already. If we did it we would have to do it now or never. I keep waffling back and forth! [/quote] I’m 38 too and have two kids. My husband is completely done so in some ways that makes it simple but I find myself feeling sad about the window that is closing. I don’t realistically think I could manage another pregnancy at this age with the two kids I have (I have had really hard pregnancies and a long term medical issue that is more complicated when I’m pregnant). So really the window is closed but still it’s hard to realize you don’t have a tiny kid anymore and you never will again. I keep reminding myself that it wasn’t a phase that could go on forever so it was going to end sooner or later…[/quote]
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