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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ask yourself if there were signs that you missed.  Sometimes a woman tries and tries to work on her marriage but the man is in denial and won't engage, and she just gives up.  It may be that what you are doing now is too little too late.  If you're only willing to work on the marriage when it's at the brink of death, you're not much of a husband.  Ask yourself what you've been ignoring.[/quote]

Ignore this crap. Typical DCUM woman saying it's all the man's fault. That's the last thing you need right now.[/quote]

The last thing somebody needs is introspection? [/quote]

Yup. When a guy has just been hit with divorce, the last thing he needs to do is brood about what he did wrong, why it was his fault, all that shit.[/quote]

And this is precisely why I don't date divorced men. [/quote]

He can wallow in self-pity at some point in the future, if he wants, but not now. If he starts beating himself up now about how he failed, that will only soften him up to yield to all her inevitable demands during the divorce process. Right now he needs to stay in the mindset that he has rights (to assets and custody) in this divorce and he needs to make sure he gets them.

We have no reason to believe the OP is not the injured party here. Most likely he got cheated on, and he did nothing wrong. It is the OPs wife who should be thinking about what she did wrong, not him - although I guarantee you she is not.[/quote]

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