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[quote=Anonymous]What really helped me was being struck with the realization that I didn’t really miss the person per se so much as the person I *was* in their company. It wasn’t about how “someone made me feel,” like in a romantic movie, but actually how I thought and behaved around them. Specifically, I realized that I had spent so much of my adult life being responsible and doing “grown up” things that I had lost sight of fun and playfulness. This person reminded me I had those qualities in myself and when I realized that, I could be grateful that we had met, and I just worked on being that person wherever I went. And I am happy to say that I am not only “over” that person but also just a more joyful person in marriage and in life. OP, maybe if you let your mind wander a bit it will come up with your own AHA moment (and it won’t be any of the very rational reasons you already know) that will show you what truly has you hooked/what your heart is really after and it will free you from what you already know is the irrational and unhealthy attraction to that person and bring the focus on yourself. Good luck, OP![/quote]

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