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[quote=Anonymous]The problem is that you’re letting the pouting get to you. Your husband asks if you want to go around town visiting his friends. You say, “No, I’m not up for that. But by all means, you go and enjoy yourself. That sounds like a great afternoon for you.”

Then he says, “Forget it.” And then he pouts and is grumpy.

This is where you have to dig deep: IGNORE IT. Do not give any oxygen to the pouting. Go about your business. Do not engage or ask him why he’s grumpy. Don’t call him out on it. Don’t try to cheer him up or ask him to do anything. Simply ignore it. Read a book. Go for a walk. Watch a movie. Talk to MIL. But do not ask him anything.

It’s his choice to stay home instead of seeing his friends. It’s his choice to be grumpy. Do not get manipulated or feel punished for saying no. Yes, he’s attempting to punish you, but don’t take it. Simply ignore it. Later, like when you’re back home sometime next week, you can address it. Or not. But again, do not engage in his petulant behavior. 
IGNORE. [/quote]

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