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[quote=Anonymous]Female here. For me there’s a huge emotional component, I need to feel connected and like he’s having sex with *me*, not just with an available warm body. Also listens to what I ask for and actually does it (rather than just doing it for a few seconds than moving on to what he wants), doesn’t make me feel like I need to perform or act out things from porn, cares about my pleasure as much as his own. Lots of foreplay and afterplay. Because people are hung up on actual numbers - we have sex most days. With young kids, it’s down to 5 days a week, but both of us could easily go daily or even twice a day. Both of us O most times, unless it’s a quickie then I often don’t. But if I want to, he always makes sure it happens, unlike other partners I’ve had who assume it’s over once they get off. We have a good amount of variety, I’d say about 1/3 of the time is focused on me and what I want, 1/3 on him, 1/3 mutual. [/quote]
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