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[quote=Anonymous]But what if you are in a soul crushing, emotionally isolating relationship with a man who even takes his vacation time on his own time, alone?  I've tried for four years to make this man speak to me.  My parents had this kind of marriage and I promise you that my two siblings and myself wished that they would divorce.  We were painfully aware of how horrendous their marriage was.  The tension was thick and my father is an angry, self-absorbed bastard.  Somehow I ended up in a similar situation.  He's not mentally ill (clinically diagnosed) like my dad but his self-absorption and disconnect is more than I can bare.  I'm at the breaking point and want to leave with my DD.  I've stuck it out for years and now I don't want my DD to grow up in the same house that I did.  I do think there are times when divorce is essential.  I can't stand to do this to my DD.  I can't stand not to give her a brother or sister but you can only take so much.  I totally agree with the PP who feels she should stick it out for the children.  I do too...to a degree.[/quote]

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