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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If it hurts your feelings, then that should matter to him. He won’t know it hurts you unless you tell him. I second the advice to tell him at a neutral time. For the people telling you to “just lose weight,” ignore them. Our country has a national obesity epidemic and a multi-billion dollar diet industry. It’s not easy and most people trying are failing. You deserve love and respect from your spouse at any weight. [/quote] +1 I don't think it's ever funny or appropriate to make fun of someone's physical appearance, but he may not have that same opinion, and so I do think it is important to let him know that it hurts. He may also be simply insensitive or passive aggressive which are just unfortunate qualities in any partner, but that can be corrected. I always my husband to know that I am not one of the guys and to treat me better. [/quote]
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